grysar's journal

I don't understand the whole batchelor party thing in the first place. Or Jack-and-Jill parties. Or (gack) batchelorette parties. It all seems to me to be something the wedding industry made up to make more money--and, incidently, seems to sow the seeds of many grudges to come. If one has to act ubermale as some sort of show of independence before tying the knot, by all means, make it paintball. But first, ask why.